My ex‘s parents hated me because of my BPD

They didn’t hate me because I hurt him (I didn’t). They didn’t hate me because I yelled at him (I didn’t). They didn’t hate me because I hated them (I didn’t). They hate me because, and they sure this as a huge reason why he should’ve never dated me, I have BPD. Not that I act a certain way. The title itself. The disorder‘s name caused so much of this break up. He broke up with me because his parents disapproved. But they disapproved because I have a fucking disorder. I DIDN‘T TREAT HIM LIKE SHIT. I have a disorder and they found out and won’t listen to reality. I hate this. Not only does this fuck my life but the title and name for it fucks my life even more. I hate this fucking disorder so much. It’s ruined my fucking life.