FET while friend is visiting

TW: loss

Hi ladies, I hope you’re well. I’m 38, husband and I proceeded with IVF in October and a fresh transfer that was successful. Then found out I had a missed miscarriage at 8 weeks and 4 days (sac measuring on schedule, baby was 2 weeks behind). I had a D&C on December 4.

My husband and I haven’t told anyone that we’re doing IVF. We will not be sharing this news till we’re out of the first trimester at least.

My doctor wants to do an FET first week of March. On March 6 one of my best friends (who I haven’t seen in 3 years) is flying in to visit us with her partner. We’ll be spending a lot of time eating out and going out, I am scared that this will impact the outcome of the FET. I will also be asked why I’m not drinking which stresses me out. I need opinions - do you think I should continue with the FET or should I push the FET for the next cycle? I feel like I’d be putting my life on hold… have you ever been in a similar situation? What did you do and how did it end up?

EDIT: thanks for the alcohol tips! I’m looking for advice on whether I should delay the FET for a cycle to just have time to myself. Do you think being out and about all day and staying up will impact the odds of the FET being successful? Any personal stories?