Nick is SO toxic (S3)
Sure, Sandy is trash also (though I feel like people are too hard on her sometimes because she seemed to really be resisting JR’s sexual advances and people don’t give her enough credit imo).
The way Nick is treating her during ultimatum day is horrible. He brought a ring to propose to her, she brought up her very real hesitations, and all of a sudden he starts belittling her and telling her she’s a bad person. She is telling him she loves him and he just keeps saying “It’s not enough, you’re not doing enough, I don’t believe you.”
He just completely switched into this horrible attitude the minute she hesitated and showed her the ring and said “you don’t deserve it,” like WTF.