Any tips?? O.o

Looking 4 some tips on how to dress scene better bc it's a style that I rlly appreciate and want to try out!! :D (I'm a kinda younger scene kid and also have a interest in scenecore btww)

I live in a somewhat strict household and I can't rlly dress shop for scene clothing :(( The best I can do is Kandi, a few hot topic shirts/belts, and thrifting. I also can't wear skinny jeans bc they cause a sensory issue for me, I can't tease my hair either bc my family will js think I didn't brush it!! I don't want 2 b seen as a poser so I'd rlly appreciate some help DX

(Also I'd appreciate some sources 2 get educated on scene culture!! :D idk if Wikipedia is the most reliable lols. Sorry if my English is bad it's not my first language!!)